It is a well-known fact, guys, that once you creep her out, it’s game over.

Let me repeat, even if you’re the most handsome, intellectual, passionate, personable dude in the WORLD, once you get the ‘creepy’ label, you are NOT getting her phone number. There’s just no chance (zip, zero, zilch, my friend).

I know this from personal experience because I have unfortunately (and unintentionally) creeped out a few girls in my day. TRUST ME, I am not bragging, as these were not my finest moments.

So what do I mean by creeping?

I have approached a woman from behind

When we go out with our buds at night, there are two kinds of dudes.

The first type is the “Doer”. He’s the guy who’s getting at it and approaching every girl he sees without hesitation.

The second type is what is known as the “watcher”. I used to be this guy.
This is the guy who is sitting in the corner and wondering, “Why can’t I just go up there and talk to girls?”

I used to lack confidence.

I used to lack knowledge.

But most importantly, I was focusing all of my mental energy on the wrong thing.

We’ve all been in that situation when we see that gorgeous girl sitting on the bench, phone in hand, looking bored out of her mind.

And we get that immediate nervous response. We think, “Shit, I should seriously do this. I have no excuse.”

But you don’t know if she’ll be receptive. Will she throw her hand in my face or respond with a smile?

You begin looking for “indicators of interest” but she doesn’t know you even exist – she’s not looking anywhere near you. This will be the definition of a cold approach.

Well, there’s one major factor

Right now I want you to step into the heels of a single girl on Valentine’s Day (figuratively guys, don’t get weird on me).

She logs on Facebook to see 1,098,783 updates on her newsfeed about this “special day”.

She goes to work and all of her female coworkers are not so subtly bragging about the delicious breakfast their husbands made for them.

She leaves work and gets a call from her mom wishing her a happy V-day and asking her “So, when are you going to find your “Mr. Right”?

Valentine ‘s Day is arguably the most emotional day

Most of us are waking up this January morning, chugging water and promising ourselves that 2013 will finally be the year of change. YAAYYYYY!

You WILL finally lose 10 pounds.

You WILL finally get a girlfriend.

But lemme tell yah one thing about setting goals, 92% of them are meaningless and ineffective*.

Why?

Most goals are far too outcome driven. Losing 10 pounds is just an end result. Getting the girlfriend is a just perceived destination.

Sure, it is important to have a vision of your desired accomplishment, but you need to realize that a vision without consistent behavior is

New Years Eve is a special time of year. Emotions run high, everyone is in a heightened social state, and this is the night of all nights when no one wants to be alone.

So what does that mean? You have an amazing opportunity to meet that special gal. So I wanted to give you an example of how I might start a conversation on New Years Eve.

Here’s the breakdown:

Ideal Situation: Girl standing by herself and you lock eyes

Open: I noticed that you’ve been scoping me out, but just so you know, I will NOT [heavy animation

I checked my inbox this morning and I was blown away.

Cosmopolitan did a featured piece on my new film, ”Go Talk To Her”: A film about confidently meeting women in every day places before I even released it to the general public!

Wait, what? Isn’t Cosmo a magazine for women? Yes, this is why it’s fascinating.

Guys, the whole premise of my film is that women WANT you to approach them during the day. Cosmo conducted a survey at the bottom of my featured article about my film, “Go Talk To Her”, and the results were astounding (from over

This is a classic situation for guys. You go out, you spend 10-20 minutes with a girl at the bar, she’s all into you, you both laugh at how hipsters are no longer cool and that the bar is full of Jersey shore, “Situation wanna be’s”. You’re flirting and she’s SO into you.

But then, her girlfriend comes along, and says “We need to go!”.

But it’s ok! You go through the wonderful formality of exchanging phone numbers.

You wait until Sunday afternoon to text her,” hey, I’d love to see you again, let’s grab a drink this week”
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Guys, stop using the same old lame “ice breakers” to start a conversation and begin using fire starters to ignite the conversation. Women are bored of boring dudes trying the same weak ass tactics.

It’s time to man up, and use a conversation starter that will create a true emotional response from women.

To work with me personally and learn to meet the type of women you know you deserve, come to my upcoming dating bootcamp for men.

When we’re going out at and getting our groove on, women are constantly grilling us with boring factual based questions. They want to get to “know us” and see whether or not we’re “date-able” (AKA, they’re qualifying the CRAP out of us).

Well, when girls ask me these BORING questions, they have another thing coming to them. In this video I share my style of response to the three questions all girls ask men when you first meet them:

• What do you do for a living?
• Where are you from?
• How old are you?

Man! Such boring questions! Whatever you