According to an article released by Boston.com today,
“Watching confidence dating coach Adam LoDolce approach a woman in the park is like watching David Ortiz step into the batter’s box.”
I never in a MILLION years thought I would be compared to David Ortiz in general, nonetheless in the context of meeting women. But this article is exactly why I accepted the Boston Globe’s challenge of going out with a reporter to show exactly what it is that I do with my male clients.
What’s the best part?
The reporter told me that every other dating coach came up with
Take off the headphones. Delete the Facebook app on your phone. Live in the present tense.
I was on the T earlier today and all I’m seeing around me are people with heads down on wasting away on their iPhones. They were either checking email and worrying about the future, or creeping on Facebook keeping up with the past. The sad truth is that social networking app usage is up 30% from the same time last year*.
Start living in the moment.
How many of us spend time texting to our friends about how difficult it is to meet people
Over the past four years I have approached probably over 5,000 women. It’s still mind boggling that I’m able to be a full time dating coach and now work both in Boston AND New York with some of the best of the best out there.
One question I get a lot from clients is how to get over the initial fear of approaching women. When we see a woman that we’re attracted to, every single cell in our body is screaming at us saying:
Contrary to common belief college students can be incredibly isolated and anti-social. I spoke at the University of Alabama a few weeks ago and the message of social confidence and dating confidence really seemed to resonate on campus. This article outlines the difficulties many students face and it talks about my dating speaker program on college campuses. Check out the article here.
As a college speaker on dating and social confidence I believe it’s critical to empower students to learn how to meet one another.
As a dating coach based in Boston and New York City, it is my job to empower my clients to build the confidence to approach, attract and date the highest quality partners. This video shows me going up and meeting new people in the Boston Commons.
Being a dating coach is just way too fun. I mean, this is my job.
Isn’t it funny how you always vent to EVERYONE about your relationship or dating problems except to the one person who matters: the person you are venting about.
As a dating coach, one of the key points I address with my clients is the importance of confronting and communicating our true emotions to others. If you are frustrated with the how a guy is treating you, stop venting to me, he’s one phone call away from knowing how you feel.
Confrontation leads to control. When you put yourself out there you change the dialogue from “I wish he would
Recently I stumbled across my grandpa’s love letters to my grandma. Yes, this dude actually sat down on a chair (I bet it was a leather chair), dipped his pen in some ink and would write this woman love letters almost every day. Back in the day there was courtship then marriage then sex. Straightforward, no grey area.
Now that sex is a lot more open and women can acceptably (certainly in my opinion) have sex with multiple partners prior to marriage, there have been an expansion of categories of relationships. Here are the four key categories:
I have made a big decision this past week and I’m going to be moving to Manhattan this summer. As a dating coach originally based in Boston, I’m finding that there are just SO MANY people in the big apple. I’m constantly receiving requests from people to come to New York city to do day or night sessions and living in Boston has made it challenging.
I should add though, I will still be working in Boston and will continue to commute back and forth for my date coaching clients here. Don’t worry, this is just an expansion!
As a college speaker on dating, socializing and alcohol, I had the honor to speak at NACA Northern Plains. Unfortunately, I only had 15 minutes to present a few ideas, but based on the reaction after the conference it was an enormous success. Here’s a small snippet from my program:
Tonight I had the incredible opportunity to speak at Lewis-Clark State College. The group of students were lively and seemed to really be digging the message.
After the speech, two girls came up to me with a question. Ahh yes, my favorite part of the night!
The girl hesitantly asks, “So, Adam. We’ve been going on dates lately but we seem to be really pushing these guys away.”
As usual, I respond, “Why?”
“Well, once guys seem to get too serious, we get freaked and push them away. What’s wrong with us?”
According to an article released by Boston.com today,
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Take off the headphones. Delete the Facebook app on your phone. Live in the present tense.
Over the past four years I have approached probably over 5,000 women. It’s still mind boggling that I’m able to be a full time dating coach and now work both in Boston AND New York with some of the best of the best out there.
Contrary to common belief college students can be incredibly isolated and anti-social. I spoke at the University of Alabama a few weeks ago and the message of social confidence and dating confidence really seemed to resonate on campus. This article outlines the difficulties many students face and it talks about my dating speaker program on college campuses. Check out the article 
I have made a big decision this past week and I’m going to be moving to Manhattan this summer. As a dating coach originally based in Boston, I’m finding that there are just SO MANY people in the big apple. I’m constantly receiving requests from people to come to New York city to do day or night sessions and living in Boston has made it challenging.
Tonight I had the incredible opportunity to speak at Lewis-Clark State College. The group of students were lively and seemed to really be digging the message.